What is the little witch's hour?
If
your child tends to be restless around the same time each night, you may be
wondering what's going on. When your baby was born, he was sleeping almost
constantly. A few weeks later, they could scream for hours. This hectic period
is often referred to as the Witching Hour, although it can last up to 3 hours.
Crying
is normal for all children. Most spend an average of about 2.2 hours a day.
Some babies, however, cry a lot more. Children with colic may cry continuously
for 2-3 hours for no apparent reason. Their bouts of crying usually occur
around the same time each day, often in the evening.
The
good news is that most babies get over this excessive crying by 3 months of
age. For some babies, this may take a little longer.
What causes the hour of the little witch?
No one
knows what causes these restless periods in babies. About 20% of babies develop
colic, usually between 2 and 4 weeks of age. Your child may simply be sensitive
to stimulation and not yet able to calm down. Although it is stressful for you,
colic will not cause long-term harm or health problems to your baby.
How can I comfort my baby?
All
children are different. Over time, you will learn what is best to soothe your
child. Here are a few tricks you can try to calm your baby:
Swaddle the baby. Wrapping your baby in a thin
blanket will help him feel safe. Your baby's nurse or doctor can teach you how
to swaddle if you need help.
Enable white noise. You can try a white noise
machine, a fan, or record your heartbeat. These sounds remind the baby that he
is in the womb and can calm him down.
Hold your baby in your arms on
their left side or stomach.
This may help your child's digestion or improve their stomach health. Remember
to put your baby on his back in the crib if he falls asleep.
Put your baby in a sling and walk
or rock them. This
reminds your baby that he is in the womb. This may comfort them.
Give your baby a pacifier or your
finger to suck on.
If it's not yet time to eat, let your baby suck on your clean finger or
pacifier. Most babies are soothed by suckling.
Do not overfeed your baby. Try to wait
at least 2-2.5 hours between the start of one feeding and the start of the
next. If you overeat, your baby may be uncomfortable.
Check for food sensitivities. If you're breastfeeding, check
with your pediatrician to see if cutting out milk or caffeine will change your
diet. Some children have signs of a milk protein intolerance that a doctor can
identify. If you are giving formula, you can also ask your pediatrician to
change the formula for your child.
Keep a diary. Write down when your child's
schedule is. This includes when they eat, sleep, wake up and cry. You can find
a schedule that you can discuss with your child's primary care physician.
Limit daytime naps. Do not let your child sleep more
than 3 hours during the day. Keep the lights dim and quiet in the room when
breastfeeding and changing your baby at night.
Check your child's needs. Sometimes a child has no apparent
reason to cry. Check if they are:
- Hungry. Keep track of when your baby is eating and look for early signs of hunger such as fist sucking.
- Cold or hot. Your baby should be wearing about
the same number of diapers as you.
- Dirty or wet. Check your baby's diaper to see
if it needs to be changed.
- Spitting up a
lot. Some
children have gastroesophageal reflux, which can be a cause for concern.
- Overexcited. Try to reduce noise and light.
- Sick. Take your child's temperature. Make sure they don't have other signs of illness. Call your pediatrician right away if your baby is less than 2 months old and has a temperature of 38 C.
- Bored. Sing or hum for your child. Go for a walk to stimulate them.
Take care. Caring for a crying baby is very
difficult. If you're feeling overwhelmed, call a friend or relative to babysit
while you're on holiday. If there is no one to help you, put your baby in the
crib, close the door and take a 10-minute break. Try to do something relaxing
during those 10 minutes.
When should I contact a pediatrician?
Crying
babies are not usually a medical problem. You should always rule out any
medical reason for your baby's crying. Contact your pediatrician if your child
has any of the following symptoms:
- Fever of 38 C or higher
- Not as alert and active as usual
- Losing weight or not gaining weight
- Vomiting
- Loose or bloody stools
- Is not eating
- Is not sucking well
- Won't calm down, no matter what you do