Swearing and bad behavior
Month 23
At
this age, everything is a game for babies: "toddler-see, toddler-do."
You make a face and you will see it reflected right on your child's face.
The
same goes for what comes out of your mouth. Babies can repeat everything you
say.
A
baby's natural need to imitate can be a good thing. Repeat a few new words to
him every day, and he will immediately understand them.
But
the copy can also turn against you. Stomp your foot and yell "S%$t!"
and you will definitely hear this word from your child's lips at some point.
Pay
attention not only to what you say, but also to what your friends say in front
of your child. Filter TV shows, radio shows, and music your child listens to,
even if they only play in the background. If it's within earshot, it's fair
game for your child's ears.
Your baby's development this month
Every
baby is a unique little person. They act or look different than any other child
their age.
Your
child is also growing at a different rate than their peers. He can dominate all
his friends or fall behind them a little. Your pediatrician's growth chart
keeps track of all of this.
You
are probably already very familiar with growth charts. Here is a reminder to
use them:
- Measuring your child's height, weight, and head circumference
- Comparing his weight and height with the measurements of other kids his age
- Tracking his height and weight as a percentile; if his weight is in the 50th percentile, it means 50% of kids his age weigh more than him, and 50% weigh less.
- Helping your doctor track your child's growth over time, to look for any sudden spurts or lags
Tips for the 23rd month
- Did your little one say something you don't approve of? Don't be surprised and don't make a big fuss. Ignoring it can help stop it because it doesn't draw attention.
- For food, choose healthy cuisine: fried chicken instead of fried chicken, fruit instead of french fries, and never carbonated drinks. You can't force him to eat what you give him, but don't fall for giving him unhealthy food just to eat. Also be a good role model in this.
- When a toddler has an earache, he may let you know by pulling on his ear and becoming more irritable than usual. See your doctor - if it's an infection, he may need an antibiotic.
- Your child should have their next checkup next month, on their 2nd birthday. Bring a list of questions to ask the pediatrician about their growth, development, and behavior.
- Is your child an budding artist? Encourage her creativity by giving her crayons, sculpting dough, and washable paints to create masterpieces.
- If you take your baby to the pool with you, put on a waterproof diaper and change it immediately. Don't forget sunscreen.
- Talk to your significant other while your baby is sleeping. Talk about your worries and joys. You are in the same boat. Only? Set aside the same time to call a friend.