Baby milestones: 8-12 months
Gets to sitting position without help
During this time, your child will move into a sitting position where
they can look for and explore toys, books, and new activities. Help them
develop skills such as hand clapping and other hand games.
Creeps or crawls on tummy
Your child is moving! At this time, they may begin to crawl, crawl on
their stomachs, or fidget on their buttocks. Don't worry about their style. As
long as they use the arms and legs on either side of the body to move, it's
fine. Encourage driving by putting an interesting toy out of reach.
Rocking back and forth on hands and knees
Rocking on hands and knees is your baby's last step before crawling.
They develop the muscles in their arms and legs so they can move forward. Give
them plenty of supervised time outside of the crib, car seat, and stroller so
they can move around and strengthen their arms and legs.
Goes from sitting to crawling
If he can sit well without support, your baby will learn to get on all
fours. Soon they will be pushing their knees to crawl. Once they are agile, set
up pillows, cushions, and boxes so they can crawl on and around them. Always
supervise this activity and make sure your home is childproof!
Can walk holding onto furniture
Your child is "navigating". Make sure sharp corners are
softened and furniture is securely fastened. Hold your child's hands while he
walks to help him exercise. Or let them push a strong walking toy under
supervision. Their first steps alone are fast approaching.
Can stand up for a moment and can take two or three steps
By 8-12 months, your baby's chest and leg muscles are strong enough to
stand up unaided. Rolling over, sitting on their own and crawling increased
their confidence. Make sure poisons and drugs are locked up and security gates
are in place.
Uses pincer grasp
Your child moves from a raking grip to a precise pincer grip with
fingers and thumb. For practice, give them small snacks. Avoid choking hazards,
including small toys for older children and foods such as grapes, nuts,
peanuts, and raw vegetables.
Bangs two cubes and place items in and out of the container
Your child's hands are busy putting things in and out of containers and
hitting them. You don't need to invest in a battery just yet. Almost anything
safe will do, including pots and pans, plastic containers, wooden spoons, and
egg cartons.
Tries to imitate scribbling
Your little one has made his first doodles. They imitate what their
parents and older siblings do. Encourage them to draw on the sidewalk with
large sidewalk chalk. Or customize them for drawing with bold, durable crayons
and thick paper.
Uses body language to communicate and can answer "no"
Although he is not yet using words, your child is using his body to
speak. They point to objects and may nod yes or no. They may stop when you say
"No!" and "Oh." They can say goodbye. Help them learn the
words with nursery rhymes, songs and books. Name objects for them often.
Can pronounce "dada" or other strings of sounds to imitate words
Did the baby say her first word? Was it "dada"? If so, don't
take it personally, mom. Now they have a chain of sounds, and "m" is
more difficult to pronounce than "d". In fact, they probably stumbled
across "dada" by accident. But very soon they will say both
"mom" and "dad" and mean it.
Can shake, hit or throw objects
What could be more interesting for a child than dropping an object and
watching you pick it up again and again? They don't want to test your patience.
They learn how the world works by shaking, hitting, throwing and dropping
objects. Play with texture books, balls and toys.
Finds hidden objects easily
A few months ago, if you hid a toy under the covers while your child was
watching, it wouldn't do anything. Now easy to find. They study "object
permanence".
Begins to use objects correctly
The nearly one-year-old who used to type on his mobile phone not so long
ago is now dialing a number and holding the receiver to his ear. They learn
that objects have names and purposes. Give them a comb, cup or spoon and see
how they play with them now.
May be shy or anxious with strangers
Your outgoing child suddenly becomes worried about others, even parents
and nannies. Fear of a stranger is one of the first emotional stages of a
child. Around new people or in new places, hold them back and give them time to
adjust. Ask your loved ones to let the baby take the first step.
Cries when mother or father leaves
Separation anxiety begins with stranger anxiety. Your baby understands
that he is separate from you and that sometimes you are not around. They can
make a lot of noise, but don't sneak up on them. Always say goodbye and tell
them you'll be back. Eventually they will realize that you are still doing it.
Likes to imitate people while playing
Your child is now imitating things that go far beyond imitating faces
and sounds. While playing, they like to imitate what people do. Give them a
plastic bowl and spoon and let them "cook" with you, or let them
"drive" the dashboard of a toy car.
Finger feeds themselves
When feeding your baby with your fingers, make sure that these are foods that he can rub off. This includes cereal, grated cheese and small pieces of tofu, well-cooked fruit or vegetables, or a ripe banana. Avoid foods such as raw vegetables, hard fruits, whole grapes, nuts, raisins, popcorn, hard cheese, and hot dogs that can cause choking.